tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-97947582899206598.post9128290000390145098..comments2024-01-19T19:28:16.564-08:00Comments on ScientistMother: raising my own little experimentS: What would you say?ScientistMotherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02540317551396323613noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-97947582899206598.post-41101625657525961432009-11-19T19:10:21.200-08:002009-11-19T19:10:21.200-08:00I've experienced some similar issues with fami...I've experienced some similar issues with family and I feel your pain. Eventually, I just decided FUCK IT. I am an adult, I am going to do what I think is right and if people don't like it then that is their problem. I am not going to feed into it and I am not going to make it worse. If they want to waste time and energy getting upset over things that aren't important, then that is microbiologist xxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07578078880223116616noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-97947582899206598.post-19928254832590180622009-11-15T22:53:43.381-08:002009-11-15T22:53:43.381-08:00It's really weird to consider that our parents...It's really weird to consider that our parents (of all people) can get jealous of other people in our lives. *big hugs* Here's hoping Mr. SM's grandfather is good as new in no time at all. <3Samiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11434039760505116696noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-97947582899206598.post-11073419795600633542009-11-15T20:35:28.668-08:002009-11-15T20:35:28.668-08:00I get your point completely. I often have lived th...I get your point completely. I often have lived through similar scenarios myself... And a math-pedantic note: you probably meant an equilateral triangle, not just an isosceles one.<br /><br />-femprofAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-97947582899206598.post-19009492836701511462009-11-14T18:24:13.752-08:002009-11-14T18:24:13.752-08:00Mrs.Spit - yeah negotiating btwn them is hard. Esp...Mrs.Spit - yeah negotiating btwn them is hard. Especially since I don't think I should have to.<br /><br />NontradUG - welcome to the blog! Sometimes I see myself becoming her, all I can do is try not too.<br /><br />MM - thanks for getting it.<br /><br />Mimi - thanks for understanding<br /><br />Bean-mom - he is lucky isn't he? I tell him that on a regular basis :)<br /><br />Anon1 - myScientistMotherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02540317551396323613noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-97947582899206598.post-10725539481457076552009-11-13T20:41:36.882-08:002009-11-13T20:41:36.882-08:00Have experienced bouts of this. I just wish we(par...Have experienced bouts of this. I just wish we(parents, inlaws, neighbours,friends and ourselves included) didnt complicate things unnecessarily. I sometimes feel relationships can get very conditional. In the mood that I currently am in, I feel like wailing!MomPhDstudenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09318163186222593903noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-97947582899206598.post-91598527443517042842009-11-13T20:18:31.810-08:002009-11-13T20:18:31.810-08:00Also, there is a certain dynamic that no one can r...Also, there is a certain dynamic that no one can really explain. Sometimes we feel closer connection to people with whom we share no blood than to our own biological relations, and maybe there is a little jealousy on your mom's part about you showering all this attention on your grandfather-in-law.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-97947582899206598.post-52632989294730972572009-11-13T10:10:37.920-08:002009-11-13T10:10:37.920-08:00Mr. SM is very very lucky to have you.Mr. SM is very very lucky to have you.The bean-momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00411250616280191525noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-97947582899206598.post-82825552674485552112009-11-13T09:50:20.578-08:002009-11-13T09:50:20.578-08:00I'm with you on this, too. I really understand...I'm with you on this, too. I really understand. You are NOT alone.Marimoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01620548493781840068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-97947582899206598.post-84289798866357598142009-11-13T08:51:34.652-08:002009-11-13T08:51:34.652-08:00I really, really get it.I really, really get it.Maggie Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14699674732274478502noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-97947582899206598.post-92144408026882868072009-11-13T06:52:15.763-08:002009-11-13T06:52:15.763-08:00oh, our mothers. all we can do is hope that we don...oh, our mothers. all we can do is hope that we don't become them when our children are grown.dianne727https://www.blogger.com/profile/05558721360915016231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-97947582899206598.post-53309764094311662582009-11-13T06:37:47.971-08:002009-11-13T06:37:47.971-08:00I'm sorry. Negotiating between the inlaws and ...I'm sorry. Negotiating between the inlaws and your family is always a challenge. You totally did the right thing, and I'm sorry you got punished for it.Mrs. Spithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03386820063407910064noreply@blogger.com